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6/10/2011

"WAIT!!! THAT WASN'T YOUR CAR???"


Why do men create false images to get women?

How many of you ladies have come across a guy or two, who when you first met was dressed fly and driving a fancy car, but when you get involved you find out it was a rental and they only dressed for an occasion? Well I know quite a few and I used to wonder why do guys need to lie about who they really are? But then the answers hit me :-)

1. A lot of girls won't look twice if they see you in a 1991 Honda Civic.
2. If have a great paying job, they won't consider it (no one wants a broke brotha).
3. Unfortunately/fortunately, a lot of us are shallow (just like men :-)).

Point is, naturally no one wants some one who can't take care of themselves or others if needed; but with that being said, now a days it's all about the bling and fancy cars, not about the personality. Sad to say, but true.

A lot of us women loose out on Good, hard working men because we're caught up looking for material things and the fact of the matter is a lot of these guys are working hard towards making their futures bright but it might not be evident at that point in time. Keep in mind everyone has different circumstances as to why their in the position their in.

THAT BEING SAID! Men please, there's a line drawn between "hard working" and "lazy". If there's no legit reason for you not having a job, being over 25 and living in your mama's house, Your lazy! And you can't possible expect to pick up a lady with that!

But now I pose another question, is lying necessary and does it have to be done in order to get a woman?

Well it really depends on how badly you want that woman, but you know what they say, Good things come to those who wait!

Ps: Yes, I know women do it too.. But as you can see the question asks about men...

4 comments:

  1. It's not his car and it's not her hair. Lol. They are even.

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  2. yes but as i said the question specifically talks about men.. women will have their turn lol

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  3. Lol. Well, if the women fall for the car that is borrow, leased, rent, whatever u want to call it, that's on them. Shouldn't have fallen for the materialistic to begin with.

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